Chatting a girl up on cam is no different to normal, the 5 step approach is what we use, which works nearly every time.The girls clock this approach straight away, you're 85% their before you've even starting chatting her up.The rest is a just a formality. Here's a few pointers on what to do and what not to do.It's the tiny microscopic things, the attention to detail, that has the enormous effect with the ladies.These tips are simple, so simple, you'll be scratching you head, but can make all the difference.. They do work.You'll be shocked.
What to do.
1. Buy credits in advance. You're chatting away, things are getting heated, she's ready, you're ready, but you've got no credits to go Private or Nude. Wrestling with a credit card and entering expiry dates etc kills the moment. Buy in advance that way you look slick. She'll be impressed. If you buy in advance, you can leave it sitting there for weeks or months, or not even use it, it's up to you, but when that once in a lifetime girl suddenly appears on your screen, you will not be thinking straight, and you're going to need credits. Trust Us. Get credits in advance!!
2. SAY HI. Sounds stupid. You'd be surprised how many guys go bowling in without a Hi. The girl you're with, sees this as rude. Black mark before you've started. The girls all say, they like a guy, who says Hi first. Just type in Hi Anastasia or Hi Tekilla or Hi whoever, she knows you're there, but now knows you're ready to chat. She'll type Hi rob2006 back and away you go. It's polite, you'll be in her good books before you've even started. She'll even give you priority over 4 other guys that don't say Hi. Do not under estimate this one. Very, Very Important.
3. When you go LIVE and enter the girls room, 9 times out of 10, you're the guy, you've got to make the move, just like in real life. You make the move, top marks from her, you're half way there. Say Hi Secretary, or whatever her model name is, and you're 75% there!! Ask her how she is=80%. Say she's looking good=85%. It's that simple, but so many guys get this wrong.
4. Use her name. We know it's a model name, but "UR 1 sexy lady" is good, but "Berry 4 U,.....UR 1 Sexy Lady" really hits home big time. You'll see the effect. It's the subtle touches that work with the ladies. Fine line stuff this! They do notice! Don't overdo it, otherwise it will have the reverse effect.
5. Give her compliments. They love it, but don't go on and on, it can have the reverse effect again and make you look a bit desperate, a turn off for her, this one happens a lot.
6. Read her Bio! Again we've seen guys ask what star sign they are, likes, positions, TOTAL BLACK MARK, the girls clock this one straight away, read her BIO all her personal stuff is there, then ask her "why she likes xyz" or "why she likes the abc position" Watch the response. You'll be streets ahead, guaranteed.
7. If you like the girl, talk to her, if you don't, log off her room and find another girl. We've heard some people go live with the girl and just sit there like a stunned rabbit. She knows you're there and she's sitting there wondering what's going on, just say Hi and go from there.Read her Bio you'll find some chat openers there. She'll fill in the gaps if you're struggling trust us on that.
8. If you''ve been chatting for a few minutes, you're getting on great, if you're getting turned on, TELL HER. If you've got no cam she's guessing half the time, what's going on. Tell her she's really turning you on, and watch the change! They love it!
9. Don't talk shop or technical or football with the girls. Talking about welding techniques, the Liverpool V Arsenal match, or how to strip down a Pentium 4 computer will keep those panties firmly ON. The Panties Web Cam objective, is to get those panties OFF! We can't believe we're even saying this, but this does happen a lot, and the guys are scratching their heads, thinking this girl is hard work, or hard to get, and start taking it personally.
10. Get the chat started by talking about HER. Not you, but HER!! She'll like that, it will give you top marks, because you're interested in HER, she'll start asking you questions, such as "What turns you on Romeo1??". If you hear anything like that, it's the biggest I'm interested, green traffic light going. Act on it!
11. No chemistry...Move on! If you're chatting to a girl for a couple of minutes and you're thinking she's not your cup of tea, tell her thanks for the chat, and move on. This is a LIVE situation, it's called chemistry, no chemistry, move on, same as real life. She'll understand and will probably be relieved. No point flogging a dead horse.
12. When you chat to your live girl say Hi , start off with your normal chat and gradually build up to the steamy sexual stuff. DO NOT say Hi, then start talking about sexual positions straight off or whats happening inside her panties. BIG TURN OFF. Enough said. This one happens a lot, if you can believe it. The saying "slowly, slowly, catchy monkey." Really does apply here! The kettle approach is what we call it! There's 5 steps involved there as well!!
13. Another important one this. Watch your girl not your keyboard. Watch for the signals, they are there, they are subtle, but they are there. She's letting you know in her girlie way, that she's ready. Girls pick up on this one, top marks if you can spot the signs, Nude or Private is seconds away, guaranteed!!
14. When you sign up you give a handle. When you go live, your handle appears to your girl on her screen, there's also a box with your opening line and a photo. Fill that box in and put in a good pic. The owner of this site has a 3 worder in that box, yes just 3 words, works a treat every time. And no, it's not Panties Webcam! It makes it easier for both of you if things aren't left blank.
15.Not compulsory, but a cam really ups the chemistry between the two of you, make no mistake about that, she may be 3000 miles away but with a cam she'll seem in your room with you, she'll look more interested as she's got something to work on, she can see you're getting turned on and she'll start to get turned on too, and believe us they do, it's not put on! Girls look totally different when they are aroused. They start to glow! Again Nude or Private is just round the corner.
16. Hot tip . If a girl you're chatting to senses that things may be heating up, the girls know this, even on cam, you'll be the focal point of her attention, if she likes you, she will ask the nude or private question to YOU and only YOU. The other guys will NOT get a look in. Bear this in mind when entering every room.
17. Hot Hot question this one. What goes on in Private?? Without giving too much away, they will take all their clothes off, you will see everything including close up,and they normally have toys, will talk dirty, do a striptease, pretty much what you say within reason. And the other question " Is Private really Private" YES, it's just you and her, 1 on 1 and nobody else, she's all yours. Even Panties Webcam can't see. Get some credits or upgrade your membership and find out. You only live once. Might as well enjoy it!
18. And finally, the biggie, cut to the chase: Panties Off =Hard Cash. The FREE membersip is great, but chatting to a girl for 3 hours and hoping for a free show, you could be in for a long wait., although if you are slick and it's quiet, you never know. The rates vary, but we're talking on average $1.99 per minute.Depends how much she likes you! Sounds horrific but 10 minutes will seem a lifetime, will be about $20 or so, about £12-£13 UK. We're talking the price of a book here, or 4- 5 pints of lager. If she's dragging things out, you're the boss, tell her to take her panties off, and she will. We're not even going to try to sell this one, it's a total no brainer!
1. At Panties Webcam Hard Cash=You're the boss, but these girls will NOT drop there panties at the drop of a hat, flash of a gold card or a one liner, upon entering their live room. They need a bit of chat! It's the Cam Girl Code. Once you accept that fact, Panties Webcam really will be a Panties Paradise for you! If you don't accept it, you WILL struggle. You will find this applies to other Live Girl networks also, maybe even more, it's not just Panties Webcam specific!
2. Go bowling in and say "show us your xxxx" or "flash us your xxxx", you'll be in her rude person books straight off, and you'll get the classic silent treatment, or she'll chat, but you'll be able to cut the bad atmosphere, with a knife! Keep the lads chat for the lads.The girls need a bit of sexy chat before they loosen up a bit, and get in the mood, just like real life. Nothing turns these girls off more than rudeness!!!
3. At peak times, say on a Saturday night, you could see an outright cracker with a dozen or so guys on the chat screen, maybe more, we really have got some classy girls here, and you've probably seen them. She's obviously got her work cut out, be patient, we've seen guys type in "why are you ignoring me" and other nonsense at these times. Give her a chance. Some are good at chatting with 12 people. Some aren't. If it's really busy just try somewhere else. There are other stunners and loads of them especially on the weekend.
4. If you enter a chat room and hear the girl saying the words nude or private to somebody else, LEAVE THE ROOM!!!!! It's that simple. In this situation, you try chatting to the girl you WILL be ignored. Just leave the room!!
5. Abusive behaviour or excessively ordering the girl around is not tolerated. Bad language, name calling is not tolerated either. The girl has the power to close the conversation down if things get out of hand.We're LIVE here and these girls have got feelings. REMEMBER THAT! Handles are issued for a reason, you will find EVERY ASPECT of Panties Webcam extremely tough going, or difficult to enter, with repeated bad behaviour. You have been warned!
The above What not to Do's apply to a tiny minority of people, the majority of Panties Webcam members we're happy to say, know how to conduct themselves with the ladies.